User blog comment:3DG-1337/Am i a worthless noob?/@comment-3019062-20130508135428

3DG-1337,

Despite what you think, you are not some 'pushover who can never be good at games'. Who cares what other people think of you? I can tell you that I'm pretty much hated by at least one person in every school, in Sydney. I have people flaming at me, telling me to 'stop trying so hard to hook up with girls', 'go kill yourself' and mostly, 'you have no friends' 'everyone hates you' 'no one likes you'. Sometimes they take it further and make it an extremely personal attack.

Do I care? No. Not a bit. Sure I may have more than my share of haters, and how people have preconceptions of me even before I meet them, but I don't let it get to me. Haters don't phase me.

And besides, I can totally see where you're coming from.

Begging, is common. I don't blame you for it. Because I was once a begger for NX gifts like you back in 2009. Who cares what people think and say? If they don't like you, just don't talk to them. Simple as that. If they persist, stand up for yourself, be assertive. Words like 'Hey, I don't like the way you said that. It makes me uncomfortable. I would prefer it if you didn't say that and left me alone'

I don't think you're a bad person. You're creative. I give you that. Before you came, the CWA was barren, and I only saw my ideas as the newest. But you made it better; and even technically created a gun for the game itself (UMP45 SE). Be proud!

No one is worthless; and I can tell you that people do like you. Sure there will always be people that don't like you at all but they make up a small percentage of the people in the world. Yes, I agree with you, I wish the world wasn't so judgmental as well. I get criticised as well, chuck in a few personal attacks and insults.

Just going to let you know, you don't have it worse off here. You're just a normal person. Me? I have preconceptions everywhere. You know there's something wrong with my social life, when my two best friends are girls, where one appears innocent, but goes to drinkups every other day, and the other one dresses very...provocatively and from time to time, make advances on other guys.

Trust me, life is happy, its good. Live it up. Don't let a couple of haters bring you and your life crashing down. I didn't. Stand by your words, be strong. Let your haters be your motivators.

As I probably said a million times before, 'haters are my motivators and flamers make me famous' This quote would apply here.

For the people who are hating on 3DG simply for 'begging' and have taken it further, I'd take a good hard look at yourself. What do you achieve from putting him down? its against the Wiki rules, and society rules as well. No one deserves to put up with that, and its considered bullying. So what if he likes to play another game? It doesn't make him a fanboy. If you apply that logic to me, that would make me a GTA 4 fanboy. But I am not.

So this serves as a clear message to everyone on the wiki. Respect each other, and remember that sometimes criticism and harsh words can go too far. Think before you say something and remember: If you can say it to someone behind a screen, go and try say it to their face.

Sorry for the long rant, but I just don't want to see someone else suffer the way I did. If you ever need to get something off your chest, anything you don't like or want to have a bit of a talk, I'll be here to listen.