User blog comment:3DG-1337/My grieveances and issues/@comment-3019062-20140131125212

Can I be harsh now?

1. You think that but it actually isn't because they decided to put an end to the discussion as they think that input is no longer needed.

2. Dwelling in the negative doesn't get you anywhere. Neither does living in the past. Sure, you've lost someone that 'understands me (sic)' but in reality, everyone has. There are people who we like and don't like in life. Deal with it. So what if you lost someone? He's just some guy you know over the internet. He's not always going to be there for you every step of the way because he, along with the rest of us, have our own lives to live, our own problems to solve and our own things to do.

3. Joking around and teasing one another is a form of friendship or socialising. They do it to me all the time, we joke around. However, I have yet to see an example of ANYONE on the wiki who are playing jokes with you so I don't know what you're trying to say.

4. The anon was Topsy. Don't jump to conclusions so fast because it just gives more room for discrepencies and cause rifts between the community. You 'assume' that the moderator status(es) were taken away due to people's complaints. This is not entirely true as it goes through a voting process. Those who lose their position often have done something which has wronged the community or someone else.

5. I say nothing.

Okay, time to be harsh. I've done nothing but sugarcoat my words ever since you've made your blogs. Today is the day I finally snap because your selfishness and attention-seeking attempts infuriate me. I can't speak for other members, but I speak for myself as it is. At the end of your blog (and just to make sure you don't edit it I will quote it), you say 'It seems my (sic) blog posts dont mean a thing'. and that 'it seems I (sic) am taken for granted here'

Do you have ANY IDEA how selfish, self-centred and egotistic that sounds? Well let me put this out in 7 words:

THE WORLD DOES NOT REVOLVE AROUND YOU!

You are sounding like a twelve year old yearning for attention with each and every one of your blog posts. I tried to help at the beginning, thinking you genuinely had a problem, but gradually, my sympathy for you dissolved because now this blog is nothing but sheer attention seeking and trying to fish for sympathy from other members.

Do you want me to go way back? Back when you joked about self harm? I took that personally because a close friend of mine had it worse off than you, she cut herself because her family, her friends, her schoolmates and even the teachers neglected her. YOU ARE NOT IN THAT POSITION, so do NOT act like you are. DON'T EVER say to us not to complain because 'I (sic) have it worse off than all of you'. That statement I quoted from a blog you made several months ago, I found absolutely pathetic. Pathetic.

I already gave you a chance, we tried to help you, we comforted you and you took advantage of that, thinking you can endlessly rant at us about your life problems. Well guess what? I'm sure I'm not the only person that is sick and tired of your blogs, complaining about the little things in life that shouldn't matter!

Look at the collection of blogs you have made; they do not vary much from each other as their true intention was to seek attention from people and you can feel a sense of security when people feel sorry for you. Mate, you can't depend on people you don't even know in real life because you have never met them. So what are you trying to achieve trying to seek attention?

Your negativity and egotistic behaviour has not only lost my respect and humility for you, but our friendship because it was hanging on a thin wire when you threatened to commit suicide over a misunderstanding. Why must you ask 'GUYS, PLZ TLK TO ME (sic)' because that seems like a downright obvious attempt to force people to talk to you. Being suffocatingly clingy to people on the wiki isn't good; it gives off a bad impression.

I could not care less if I lose a friend because from what I can see, our 'friendship' consisted of you ranting your problems at me in chat when I attempted to have a laid-back and relaxed conversation with other CAWiki members about combat arms, not life problems. Being your friend does not give you the right to rant at people 24/7. Sure you have some life problems, but you don't have to let it out all the time because it shows that you are not in control of your life. I have problems with my life too you know, but I never openly complain or tell people because I learn to control myself and deal with the problems myself. Problem solving is a life skill that you have yet to learn. Once you grow older, nearing adulthood, you must realise that your friends can't always be there for you; your girlfriend or boyfriend can't always be there to talk to you or support you. You must support yourself, look out for yourself, keep your problems within and subconsciously visualise or develop a solution.

I have tried my best to stop myself from swearing and I think I did a good job at that, noting down that you have, on multiple occations, angered me with your threats of self harm, openly complained about your life and tell us not to complain because its not as bad as yours and continue to seek attention from people on the CAWiki with your pathetic life problems. So what? DEAL WITH IT YOURSELF!

You may think I'm being mean or targeting you, but I'm telling you the cold hard truth. You have to stop doing this because at the moment I can only see you are concerned with your own emotions and thinking how to make yourself feel better. Well sometimes when you make yourself feel better, you're making others feel worse at the same time. So stop with the attention seeking blogs, stop being so self-sentered and egotistic and STOP POSTING YOUR FEELINGS ON THE CAWIKI! ITS THE CAWIKI NOT A COUNSELLING WIKI!

If you REALLY DO have problems, you have to trust me, and this is the ABSOLUTE LAST TIME I WILL SAY THIS, you have to talk to a counselor or a psychiatrist!

I'm glad I got that over and done with.

References:http://combatarms.wikia.com/wiki/User_blog:3DG-1337/Am_i_a_worthless_noob%3F

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